Today, I want to talk about sexy anal orgasms. Specifically, I want to address the men who have fantasized about an anal orgasm, but have never experienced one before. Ms. Delia tells you this really is worth exploring.
So, here are three tips to help you explore that ass.
1. Educate Yourself About Anal Orgasms
First, let’s start with the basics. What exactly is an anal orgasm? An anal orgasm is achieved through stimulation of the prostate gland, also known as the male G-spot. The prostate is a small, walnut-sized gland located between the bladder and the rectum. When stimulated, it can lead to intense, pleasurable sensations and can even result in a full-body orgasm. You can check out WebMD for more info. Now, you may be wondering, Ms. Delia, how do I even begin to stimulate my prostate?
2. Relaxation is the Key to Anal Pleasure
The key to any pleasurable experience is relaxation. This is especially true when it comes to anal play. The muscles in and around the anus are designed to be tight and are often associated with feelings of tension or discomfort. To counteract this, it is crucial to relax your body and mind before attempting any anal stimulation. Engage in deep breathing exercises and practice mindfulness to calm your nerves and create a relaxed atmosphere. Remember, the more relaxed you are, the easier it will be to experience pleasure.
3. Use Lubrication for every Anal Session!
When it comes to anal play, lubrication is your best friend. The anus does not self-lubricate like the vagina does, so it is important to use a good amount of lubricant to avoid discomfort or even injury. Always check out Ms. Constance’s Lube Reviews for ideas. Water-based lubricants are typically the best option as they are safe to use with all types of sex toys and condoms. Apply a generous amount to both the anus and the toy/finger you will be using for stimulation. Don’t be afraid to add more during play if needed.
I just gave you the tips to get started. Now, I will take you deeper into the world of prostate stimulation and explore five different ways to help you have a prostate orgasm.
1. The Come-Hither Motion
One of the most popular techniques for prostate stimulation is using the “come-hither” motion. To do this, insert your finger or a prostate massager into the anus and curl it towards the front of your body, as if you are beckoning someone to come closer. This motion specifically targets the prostate gland and can lead to intense pleasure and even a prostate orgasm.
2. The Two-Finger Method for Prostate Pleasure
Another technique to try is the two-finger method. This involves inserting two fingers into the anus and making a “V” shape with them. Gently press on both sides of the prostate and move your fingers in a circular motion. Experiment with different pressures and speeds to find what feels best for you.
3. Achieve Anal Orgasm Using a Prostate Vibrator
I LOVE using a prostate massager or vibrator with men because that greatly enhances your experience with prostate stimulation. These toys are designed to hit the prostate gland perfectly and often come with different vibration settings that can be adjusted to your liking. You can either use the vibrator externally on the perineum (the area between the anus and the scrotum) or internally for direct prostate stimulation. Ask me how I can control your prostate toy like this one!
4. The Anal-Centric Position
For those who prefer to use their hands, the anal-centric position can be a game-changer. This position involves lying on your back with your legs up and using both hands to stimulate the anus and prostate. Use one hand to gently tug on the perineum while the other hand massages the anus and prostate. This position allows for easy access to both areas and can lead to intense pleasure. Also, this position looks sexy. You are simply begging to be pegged. That’s why Ms. Delia loves the position!
5. The “Edging” Technique for an Anal Orgasm
Last but not least, the “edging” technique can be incredibly effective in achieving a prostate orgasm. This technique involves bringing yourself to the brink of orgasm and then stopping all stimulation and taking a break. This process can be repeated multiple times, building up the intensity of the orgasm until you finally release and have a mind-blowing prostate orgasm.
When I use a prostate toy with Jack, I do edge his ass. It is incredible to edge him and work him to a hands-free anal orgasm! Remember to always listen to your body and use lube! Most importantly, enjoy the journey to discovering your own male G-spot.
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