Mistress Marilyn on Anal Sex Toys

Today we are going to cover my hands down, favorite thing about anal play- toys! Anal sex toys give you endless ways to discover new pleasure. There are different shapes, sizes, colors, materials, and functions to experiment with to ensure that you and your ass never get bored! Let’s begin 🙂

Mistress Marilyn schools you on Anal Toys

When Mistress Marilyn shops for anal sex toys, I look for:

• A flared base or a decent set of balls

  • This prevents a toy from slipping away into uncharted territory! Safety is sexy 😉

• Texture

  • With dildos, look for a nice shapely ridge where the head meets the shaft or stimulating veiny details!
  • With plugs, try out a graduated bead-like design that feels great staying put or with some gentle thrusting.

• Function

  • If you’ve not yet tried a vibrating toy in your ass, you don’t know what you’re missing! Not only do vibrations increase the amazing sensations the toy already gives, but they also aid in anal foreplay by helping relax your muscles when used externally.
  • Along with toys made specifically for prostate stimulation, you may also find dildos or vibrators with a curvature to them that can do wonders for your prostate as well! Just be sure not to forget the flared base rule, and make sure the toy is safe for anal play.

• Size

  • Size is certainly a factor when choosing an anal toy as it depends on the experience level of your or your partners ass.
  • For those newer to anal play, there are small dildos called anal starters that are quite modest! Also look for small sized butt plugs which tend to be shorter and quite slim. Work out that ass then work your way up!
  • For those at an intermediate or advanced level, feel free to start experimenting with medium to large sized plugs or dildos with a bit more girth. Take your time, insert the toy slowly, and if it’s too big your body will let you know! Be aware of what you’re feeling, and hey- if your dream toy isn’t working out yet, don’t worry. All good things come with patience and time, and it’s good to have sexy goals for the long run 😉

• Material

  • My personal suggestion is that you always use a waterproof toy for anal play, so you don’t stress about damaging it during clean up.
  • Different materials tend to be harder or softer, and the type of material is usually listed with a product description. For instance, a PVC dildo tends to be firm with comfortable give to it, while a TPE toy is often much softer and better suited for sensually stimulating those sensitive nerves of yours!

And there you have it: the in’s and out’s of anal toys- pun intended 😉

What sexy details do you look for when picking out anal toys? Do you have any that gave you an experience incredible enough to share? Let’s hear it! 😉

XOXO- Mistress Marilyn

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