While anal play can be considered a fetish in and of itself, it’s no surprise that multiple fantasies- both the sensual and the wicked- can play an exciting and vital part in the overall scheme of kinky things 😉 Today I’d like to focus on the darker side of anal foreplay and all the devious little things that come along with it. Welcome to my twisted idea of fun 😉

Come to the Dark Side . .  . We Have Fetishes

Properly placed discipline and pain play can certainly give a sexy boost to the anal play yet to come. This is because the right amount of ouch can get feel-good endorphins running, which can add to the level of sexual excitement. Here’s where it can get tricky- for an incredible anal play experience, we know that it is very important to be relaxed. If you’re a newbie to pain play, I suggest taking it slow and building upon what you can handle, and sticking to activities you’re comfortable with. For the more experienced players, you’ve already been there and done that, so all you’ll need to do is be a good subbie and take what your Mistress gives to you! Aren’t you lucky?

Kinky Anal Foreplay Tricks to Try

  • Spanking the “sweet spot”- The “sweet spot” is the little quadrant where the fleshiest part of your bum meets your thighs, and that particular area is packed with nerve endings that send a rush right to your naughty bits when stimulated. For this particular area, a hand or a paddle are wonderful tools.
  • Flogging for sensation- For a more sensual flogging experience, I love using a suede flogger with soft figure eight strokes over the sweet spot, as well as just a bit above or below it. For a more sting-y sensation, try a leather (or rubber, if you’re brave and open to marks) flogger using a towel snap throw. For a sensation with more thud than sting, try a punch throw to the sweet spot with a leather flogger to warm things up 😉
  • The Riding Crop- This particular implement gives very concentrated sensations and can make your adorable ass cheeks bounce just right with a particular flick of the wrist. The soft tip of the crop can also be gently brushed over the skin to add some sensuality to the mix.
  • Electro Play- If you’re a fan of electro sex, invest in a body contact attachment for your violet wand.  As long as the attachment is against your Mistresses skin, she can use her fingertips all over the sensitive skin of your backside for some shocking sensations. Also consider a Mylar flogger; when used with the body contact attachment, every tail that brushes over your skin will make your nerves tingle exquisitely 😉

Do you have any kinky ass play tips and tricks to share? Start talkin’!

XOXO- Mistress Marilyn