Ms. Delia, HOW Do I Ask For Pegging?

I received this question in an email from one who loves this blog and loves the anal play and anal masturbation on his own. He got into a relationship. She is open, and fun sexually, but he is nervous to ask her about pegging even though it is his number one fantasy to be pegged by a woman. So these are my thoughts on how to ask for pegging.

Lead into the Pegging Talk if Needed

I think it is helpful to watch porn together as a couple. This caller and girlfriend like to. So, I suggest watching some porn clips and adding a pegging one or two to the mix. This gives a conversation point after and makes it seem like the question did not just come out of nowhere. It cuts down on awkwardness.

Have a Serious Pegging Talk

Sit and talk seriously. Maybe discuss how hot the porn was and ask her if she liked anything in particular. Then share that you are intrigued by the pegging, and tell her that you would love for her to try pegging you. Maybe she had never thought of pegging before, but is caught up in the enthusiasm! Great!!

If Talking is not an Option…

I know for many sex talks are taboo! So here is my suggestion. Try email. Ask what she liked about the porn, and then write about your anal play and pegging thoughts. Sharing sexual fantasies is normal in a relationship. Working together to meet each other’s fantasies is sexy and hot!

Good luck! Let Ms. Delia know if you have any anal play questions.