Finding Your Prostate

This blog is devoted to prostate pleasure and fun with anal play. But, I recently got an email asking me, “Where is the prostate?” That was eye-opening. So, let’s do a basic review of the prostate and the pleasure it brings!

Finding the Prostate

Absolutely the easiest way to access the prostate it to insert a finger through the rectum. Feel around for something about the size of a walnut. It will feel great when you touch it. You may even get tingles throughout your cock!

Prostate Finding Tips

Clean your butt! Maybe you need some manscaping, or at least a nice shower so you feel fresh!

Check out your fingernails and make sure they are smooth. Also, check out your fingers, and soften with lotion if they are dry.

Get into a good position. I like it when you lay flat on your back. Bend your knees and pull your feet toward your butt. You can also put a pillow under your lower back/upper butt for comfort.

USE LUBE! Ms. Constance has lube reviews. Read them. Apply a few drops of lube to your first (index, pointer) AND to your anus and gently slide your finger inside your anus. Stop when you get to the second knuckle. Make a “come here” curl with the tip of your finger.

Slowly, easily, and gently explore. You are looking for the area that gives your cock a tingle. When you find it, explore in that area. It should feel a little awkward, but also pleasurable.

**IMPORTANT** You are NOT touching your actual prostate. You are feeling it through the rectal wall. So you can apply more gentle pressure because that pressure stimulates the prostate gland.