Becoming A Bend Over Boyfriend, Part 2: Be Your Own BOB
So, have you told her? Did you sit down with your wife of your girlfriend and tell her how you wanted to bend over for her, to have her take you with a strap-on? How did she react? I can tell you the first time I had a boyfriend who told me he wanted to be pegged, I was thrilled! It showed how much trust he had in me to share that fantasy. It happens every time one of my playmates tells me about their Bend Over Boyfriend fantasy!
Before She Bends You Over, You Need to Know What You Like
Part of the communication I talked about last week has to do with telling her what you like. So, the first step in becoming a Bend Over Boyfriend to be your own BOB. Start experimenting on yourself, using fingers, butt plugs, prostate massagers. You need to be able to tell your significant other just what feels good, and how it does feel, so you’ll both enjoy yourselves.
Get Comfortable – With Your Ass!
As you play with your ass, you’ll find all those hot spots. Where it feels good, where it feels painful, where’s it’s just fun. Playing with different kinds of toys is also helpful. Maybe you’re like Jack, and smooth toys are best. Maybe you realy like the feeling of having a veiny, life-like dildo deep in your ass. You won’t know until you try! Then make sure you let her know exactly what you’ve experienced.
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