Welcome back booty fanatics! Today I’d like to take a trip back to the basics of anal play- starting with your fingers! As much as I enjoy incorporating anal toys into my play, I’ve found that fingers are not only great for anal play beginners, but also great for adding different sensations for the experts who may be missing out now that their toy collection has grown! Not to worry, Mistress Marilyn is here to help 😉
Mistress Marilyn Teaches you to Finger your Ass!
Fingers are Great Anal Toys
Fingers make great anal toys for multiple reasons. Firstly, they’re small in comparison to many anal toys so you can start out comfy and add more digits once your ass is ready! Secondly, they have the ability to give incredible, concentrated pleasure right where you want it, and that’s both before and after insertion. Thirdly, they’re instantly accessible, and the only other supplies you’ll need are lube, and perhaps a set of gloves to make clean up a breeze.
Rimming with Fingers
One of the things that feels absolutely incredible to do with your digits is finger rimming your ass. If you’re a beginner, this is a way to help relax your body, and get that certain part of you all nice and ready to take what you desire next. If you’re an expert, I believe finger rimming is an exceptional tease that never fails to get your ass begging for more! Don’t be afraid to experiment with alternating touches or different levels of pressure; you may just discover a new trick that you’ll want to experience over and over again!
Tips for Anal Fingering
Another thing that feels amazing is anal fingering. Starting small is essential for beginners; you can always work your way up- but, a finger can easily feel what your body does or doesn’t want, unlike a toy. Should you experience discomfort or should your muscles tense up, you’ll know instantly to slow down and allow your body to relax. On the flipside, your ass may already want more, and this is where the real fun begins! As long as you have good lube, your nails are trimmed or you’re wearing gloves, a finger can either be gentle or rough, and it can also bend and curve into positions that hit just the right spots! Still wanting more? Try two fingers, and see how your body reacts. If you’re enjoying it, you might try twisting the fingers, gently thrusting them in a fluid motion, or even spreading them apart a bit to work that ass with less risk of discomfort and a greater chance of absolutely loving it!
What are your thoughts on anal play with fingers? Do you want to try it? Have you tried it and loved it? Have you moved on to other toys and left your fingers neglected- and if so, how can we put these awesome toys to new and exciting use again? I’d love to hear all about it!
XOXO- Mistress Marilyn
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Fingers are absolutely a great intro to anal…it’s so easy to start very slowly and find yourself doing more and more than you thought you would. My only advice is to make sure to use a plain lube; numbing lubes won’t allow you to feel all the good stuff AND make sure you don’t do anything harmful, and tingly lube might be a bit too much for a first timer.
Great tips and ones that should take the worry away from the fun!
My pets love it when I have them finger rim themselves,
they usually get past all that negative anal fear and
are so excited and ready to explore afterwards.
Thank Ms Marilyn-I have a few people needing to read this. 🙂
To Miss Nicole: Thank you for adding that; I agree completely about using regular lube! It’s always wonderful to experience new sensations in anal play, but there is such a thing as going overboard- especially with the different ingredients they put in sensation lubes today. I do have an off subject purpose for anal lube though, we must chat about it someday! 😉
To Mistress Sloane: Thank you! I love finger rimming! I don’t know about you, but I’ve sometimes encountered those jumpy subs new to anal play, and simply stimulating that area works wonders at getting them nice and relaxed for me to have my fun 😉 Share to your hearts content, glad I can help!
Thanks Ms Marilyn! 🙂
I’m sending several ‘jumpy’ ones you’re way-well termed that and
I’m hoping after they read this great post that we may proceed with
the new training program!
Hugs
Ms Sloane
Best part of fingers for anal play? Hmmmm. I would definitely have to say during ejaculation… Only because you get to feel my ass pumping during it. When it starts you get that first spurt of cum out and at the same time you feel that squeezing clench arojnd your finger and it happens with each orgasmic contraction which is really just inside of me pumping so my cum spurts out of my cock.
I lovvvvvve those contractions at the point of orgasm when the ass clenches around my fingers!
Thanks, Mark!
Always love fingering myself but never had the chance to have another do it to me.
Would like to know what it’s like to have that feeling and not being in control