My Ass is Hot, but I Will Be Taking Yours!

I love anal play, and have quite the collection of anal toys, prostate massagers, and strap-ons! I love breaking in a man, and think every man should experience the pleasures of anal play often. It is important to know that you can’t just go right from wanting the actual experience anal play or a strap-on to immediately riding a large dildo. There are steps you must take in between, and these steps are very pleasurable, especially when added to masturbation.

Get To Know Your Ass!

The first thing you need to learn about is anatomy. I could get very technical with you and discuss striated verses circular muscles, but I will be happy just to tell you that you have two sphincter muscles to break through with any anal toys. The outer sphincter muscle you can control. Go ahead squeeze it now. I bet it feels good. The inner sphincter muscle is an involuntary muscle and is not one you can control! If it spasms while you try anal play, it can hurt, and you will have to wait about 30 seconds until the spasm passes. Another quick tip to getting past the inner sphincter is to gently bear down. This causes it to relax.

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Lube for Anal Play

One of the most important parts of anal play for your enjoyment is using a great lube! Lube can make or break your anal play experience. There are several kinds:

Water based: these are good as a lubricant because they are inexpensive. However because they are water based they absorb into the skin, and dry out faster, so you end up using more.

Silicone lube: These lubes do not absorb into the body so they stay slick longer. However, it is important to ask about the lube and check the packaging. Some silicone lubes do not workwell with latex condoms. All my toys wear condoms, so be careful for that! Also, since we are talking about anal sex toys, note that silicone toys cannot be used with a silicone lube as the lube will bond with and dissolve/warp the toy! I learned this the hard way! Read and ask questions. I did and found a great silicone lube.

Anal lubes: These are specific for anal sex or anal play. They have a numbing agent added, usually benzocaine. Be careful for allergies. If allergic to benzocaine do not use! Also note that while these lubes numb to make penetration more comfortable, when numb, an injury could happen accidentally.

So, here is the scoop on lube. I use all three of the above when I have fun with anal play! I like to use lube shooters to get a nice amount of silicone lube inside, I add a condom to a toy and slather it up with water based lube. I use a little bit of anal lube for comfort, and then go to town. This has taken some practice and a bit of trial and error, but the feelings are oh so very worth it.

Anal Masturbation Toys

Anal toys are a great way to begin pleasurable anal training. Toys can be small and graduated in size. I have a set of graduated pink beads that are so hot to play with! They feel amazing, and when pulled out at the right time really intensify an orgasm.

Butt plug kit is an essential tool to help you graduate from fun toys to a serious strap-on. I always suggest a butt plug kit to all of my slutty playthings! When looking for a good training kit, find one that has a small, medium and large plug. Small can be fun for wearing anytime. During masturbation the medium can provide amazing fullness great feeling pressure. To get you ready for a dildo or a strap-on, a large is great for stretching. Go slowly and carefully!

Prostate Massage

Prostate Massagers are amazing to use when masturbating because of the increased sensation and intensity they give! While the Aneros is a popular one, I have found one called the Rude Boy that is so hot! It is curved, and designed to stimulate the prostate and the perineum. By rocking on it, you can have a hands-free orgasm with practice! I was so excited when I saw my playthings having such success with this toy, that I looked and found a G-spot toy, the Rock Chick by the same company.

I love these toys. Note they are silicone, so use water based lubes if you play with them.

Anal Masturbation and Dildos

Dildos are so very useful if you have no one to use a strap-on with you. There are many types, and I do have my favorites! What I love most is any dildo that is realistically shaped, and that feels real. Many dildos have a new type of comfortable “real skin” type of material that actually makes them feel close to the real thing! I like to use these realistic dildos as strap-ons. I suggest trying a real skin dildo. It will make your masturbation session so hot.

It is important to practice and create a masturbation schedule to include anal play. I adore setting up masturbation schedules for hot strokers who want to add extra intensity to their stroking fun! This is crucial to continued anal enjoyment! Good practice will have you ready when your Mistress expects you to be ready to take her strap-on. You’ll be so glad you practiced so you can please her.