Last week, Mistress Delia chatted a bit about Strap On Expectations, and gave you the sexiest dose of realism you’ve ever had! Her recent posts have reminded me of what makes her an amazing Anal Play Mistress, and it made me think of the wonderful things I’ve learned from Ms. Delia and Ladies like herself- as well as why our butt sluts can’t help coming back for more! There’s a few reasons why our strap-ons end up becoming so addictive- and it’s about time you find out what those reasons are 😉
A Great Strap On Mistress Knows
1) That anal play is always sexier when she takes her time! Not only is it great to take things slow to truly enjoy each and every sensation, but it’s exceptionally important to stretch your ass a smidge at a time- especially if it’s your first time taking a strap on. Once you get used to the size, the naughty thrusting fun can begin 😉
2) She knows when listen up! Ms. Delia made an excellent point in her last post– communication is what makes for a great anal play experience! We may be wrapped up in orgasmic pleasure ourselves- but only you can feel what your ass is feeling. Take a deep breath and speak up- we’re all ears, and we promise to be gentle. We wouldn’t want to wear you out for next time, would we?
3) Sometimes, it’s just fun to go back to basics, and have fun with Anal Fingering! Fingering my subbie’s ass is delightfully sensual, and I love being able to feel his reactions as he gently clenches and relaxes around my fingertips. Build up to an internal prostate massage, and you’ll wonder what you’ve been missing for so long!
4) Size can be relative- as well as sexy and safe! Your fantasies may involve a date with you and your Mistresses huge strap-on cock- but if you’re new to anal play, a 5 inch slim dildo may be just big enough to fill you up just right! My favorite strap-on sluts know that the size of your toys gets to grow with your experience level. That means I’ll work you up one size at a time- and you’ll feel delightfully naughty as each of my toys and I eventually claim your ass 😉
5) Cleanliness is next to sexiness 😀 Start by only playing with anal toys that are easy to sanitize- those made of silicone, steel, or glass. These materials are non-porous, and that makes safe cleaning a breeze! For super easy clean up, slip a condom over your toy before the kinky fun begins- and always wash your toys and rinse them well between uses. You can also sanitize these materials with rubbing alcohol- spray your toys just enough to get them wet, and let the alcohol dry and evaporate completely; that’s what does the cleaning! Rinse them very well and they’ll be squeaky clean as ever!
6) That said, the only squeaking during anal play should be from the mattress 😉 Last but not least, an awesome strap-on Mistress knows that never, in the history of ever, has there been such a thing as using too much lube for strap-on sex! I will plead the fifth on the rumor that I keep a stash of water based lube in my closet by the gallons, though 😀
Tune in on Saturday to find out why Ms. Delia adores milking her butt sluts! Meanwhile, share your thoughts on what makes an Awesome Strap On Mistress- or an amazing time you’ve had with Her strap on in playdates past!
Have a Kinky Week 😉
XOXO- Mistress Marilyn
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