Tips, when followed, for better anal pleasure is often key to making a great anal play experience even more amazing! The correct breathing patterns, lube, and external massage can not only help you get more pleasure, but it can also can help to prevent pain when playing with your ass.
Breathing Slowly
Comfortable Anal Play
Yes! Anal Play is amazing! There is a whole bunch of science that backs this up! When you breathe slowly and do a long exhale, your body naturally relaxes as do all the sphincter muscles. When inserting things in your hot and horny ass, it is so important to really relax your breathing so that inner sphincter relaxes and lets your finger or toy right in!
Use lube
You might work on cars and know that if things are not lubricated properly things break. Hey, the same is true with your ass, and even more, I think! You NEED lube when playing anally. Try using a slick and soapy finger in the shower. Feels so good right? Just goes to show you a lot of lube can make your anal masturbation better than you expected.
Play Externally First
There are so many delicious sensations you can get from anal massage. Also, external prostate massage can be just what you need especially if you are not into penetration for medical or any other reasons. External play still lets you find the pleasure from all of the nerve endings and more! If you are nervous about anal play, try external stimulation first and work your way up!
You bring up a very good point, Ms. Delia. A great deal of pleasure can be derived from external prostate massage. A lot of times I will have guys massage or apply varied pressure externally to their prostate during a guided masturbation session. The right amount of pressure at precisely the right time can take that orgasm from 0-10 on the Richter scale in no time at all! Too many men neglect this important piece of the masturbation puzzle, wouldn’t you agree, Ms. Delia?
I would totally agree, Ms Hunter!
External Prostate massage is great for those who can not play internally too! Perfect pleasure indeed!
Ms Delia
External is how I started… with my GF when I was about 18 years old.. i was too afraid to ask her to finger my ass back then.. but I used to have her jerk me off or I would jerk off while she did the external massage… again my favorite part was when she held her fingers there and I came, she could feel me cumming just as if she was in my ass.. you still feel the contractions/pumping of the prostate and all the muscles that squeeze to make that cum spurt out
That is one of my favorite parts too, Mark! I love the spasms at the end of an anal orgasm!