I had a person email me about my anal blog. He was curious about the 3 BEST tips for anal play success, and asked for a special post for a beginner like him. Oh it was a challenge. I looked through many posts about anal sex toys and anal training. And in the end (no pun intended) I do have 3 tips for anal play success for you!
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Foreplay for your ass.
Anal Play Mistress Delia
When getting into anal play, an important tip is not just to push in a large toy first! I want every budding butt slut to try external anal stimulation first. Get to know your body. Rub the outside of the anus and feel the pleasure. Push up on the perineum and do some external prostate stimulation too. It is all about first time anal pleasure!
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RELAX your Ass and Body
There are 2 sphincters you have to deal with when it comes to anal play. The first is external, and is the one you can squeeze. The second is internal, and when things go in, it tends to tense and spasm. This is NORMAL, and you need to pause, relax, breathe, and relax. Usually is relaxes itself in about 30 seconds to 1 minute.
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USE LUBE
I think lube is the most important part of a great anal play experience. Use it on yourself and your toy, and when you think you have had enough, use a bit more. Lube is amazing and makes things just feel BETTER! Need advice on a great lube> Check out Ms. Constance’s lube reviews on her blog.
Try all of these 3 tips for anal play success!
Oh Mistress Delia, Thank You for this post. Whether Your a novice like the person who suggested this topic, or an avowed butt-slut like me, Your tips above are always essential to maximizing anal-play success. Thank You for sharing them and the link to Ms. Constance’s lube eval.
And i do want to give a big thanks for allowing me time for me to employ these important steps before all of our anal-play scenes.
The only other suggestion for the anal play novice which i feel enhances is a good cleansing prep about an hour before playing to make the clean-up after a bit less…challenging.
Prep is always good, kneelcc!
You certainly are a wonderful butt slut. 🙂