Picking out a Dildo

Keep up with Your Anal Training

This post is going to be a bit advanced.  You should all be in Week 3 of your Anal Training Program, but we should start thinking ahead to when you’ll be ready to take cock up that ass!  You should always have your own dildo, no matter who you’re playing with, one that is only used on you.  That’s Anal Play Safety 101.   More to the point, you want one that works for you.

Dildo Materials

Just like butt plugs, dildos came in a variety of materials.  Again, I’d stay away from metal, glass/acrylic or wood.  Although, metal ones can be fun if you’re also into e-stim games!  Anyway, silicone and latex/rubber are your go to’s.  They have enough give to remain comfortable, but are still solid.  One note regarding lube – you cannot use silicone based lubes with latex or rubber cocks, they will fall apart!

Dildo Size and Shape

Just like with your butt plugs, start off small.  As you get more regularly into anal play, you’ll be able to move to bigger sizes if you’re a Size Queen!  Truth be told, though, most sensation is in the first few inches of your rectum, so bigger may not be better.  Start off with a 5” dildo, as wide around as the largest butt plug you can comfortable take.  Shape is also important.  For example, Jack does not do well with realistic fake cocks.  We tend to use smooth dildos, like the Tantus Sport.  You may feel differently, however, so experiment and find what’s best for you.

Next week – Preparing for that First Strap-on Session!