If you are curious about anal play and anal sex, you can start to explore by incorporating anal foreplay into your fun! Foreplay is usually slow and easy and gets you to know more about yourself. With anal foreplay, you will be learning the ways your body loves to be touched. There are a couple of things you can do to enhance your foreplay. These things do not require any toys, just your fingers, and lube. 

Anal Massage Relaxes You!

Think of your anal tissue like it is a blown up a balloon. Think of touching that balloon. If you poke your finger into a balloon hard, you know it will pop. Ouch! But if you sink your finger in slowly it will become relaxed latex and you can easily touch and play with the balloon if you play gently and easily. Anal Massage helps you to relax both the inner and outer anal sphincters. This should give you even more pleasure. You want to just touch the anus and all around it to the perineum. Use lube! Find out what feels amazing, press and touch, and keep doing it!

Practice Anal Fingering SLOWLY!

I know you want to feel that fullness NOW!  However, I recommend that you go slow, really slow, even super slow. Practice makes perfect. Starting slow reduces the risk of anal tears which heal slowly and are not fun! Start with self fingering and touching to learn your own body so you can communicate what you love and what gives you pleasure with your partner. Use that lube and make finger insertion something luxurious! Slide and glide slowly and feel every sensation you can. Anal fingering is just what you need to get excited about penetration!