Anal Play for Beginners is not my usual type of post. Generally, I write about more advanced anal play. But, I received an email from someone who enjoys my blog but had not ventured into the actual practice of anal play. So, of course, Ms. Delia just had to write this post for all the beginners out there.
Anal Play Safety and Prep
Before we dive into the exciting world of anal play, it’s important to address some safety concerns and preparation tips. First and foremost, anal play should always be consensual and done with a partner you trust. Communication is key in any sexual activity, but it is especially crucial when it comes to anal play.
It’s important to remember that when planning for anal play, the anus is not self-lubricating, so using a high-quality, body-safe lubricant is essential. This will not only enhance pleasure, but it will also prevent any discomfort or potential injury. Additionally, always make sure to start slow and listen to your body. If something doesn’t feel right, stop and reassess. Hygiene is important, so do a quick wash or wipe before playing.
Solo Anal Play Practice
If you’re new to anal play, it can be helpful to start off on your own. This will allow you to get comfortable with the sensations and explore at your own pace. Begin by lying on your back, with your knees bent and your feet flat on the bed or floor. You can also try squatting or lying on your side, whichever position feels most comfortable for you. Start by gently massaging the area around your anus with your fingers or a small butt plug. Use plenty of lubricant and listen to your body. If you feel any discomfort or pain, stop immediately. Anal play for beginners should always be sexy and fun.
Experiment with Different Anal Touches
Once you feel comfortable with external stimulation, you can start to explore different types of touch and pressure. There are a couple of touches I love for anal play
- Pressing – This involves using the flat part of your thumb to gently press against the anus. You can also try using your fingers to draw circles, massage the area, or move up and down over the anus.
- Another helpful technique is called “mapping.” This involves using your fingers to trace the muscles and curves of the anus, paying attention to any areas that feel particularly pleasurable. You can also try using different amounts of pressure or varying your strokes to see what feels best for you.
Don’t be afraid to get creative and try different sensations. Some people enjoy using a feather or small brush to tickle and tease the area, while others may prefer a firmer touch. It’s all about finding what feels good for you.
Explore Internal Anal Stimulation
If you feel ready to try internal stimulation, there are a couple different options I want you to explore.
- Fingering – You can start by using your finger, or you can try using a small, finger-likey anal toy such as a butt plug. Make sure to use plenty of lubricant and start slowly, gradually increasing the size and intensity of the stimulation as you feel comfortable.
- Beads and Small Dildos – As you become more experienced, you can also try using a dildo or anal beads. It’s important to always use toys specifically designed for anal play, as they will have a flared base to prevent them from getting lost inside the anus. And remember, always listen to your body and go at your own pace.
Play with Different Positions
The position you choose can greatly affect the sensations and pleasure you experience during anal play. Some people prefer to be on their back with their legs in the air, while others may prefer to be on their hands and knees. You can also try lying on your side or squatting, as mentioned earlier.
Experimenting with different positions can also help you find what feels best for you. It can also add excitement and variety to your anal play.
Find What Works for Your Ass
Remember, everyone’s body is different, and what may feel pleasurable for one person may not feel the same for another. The key is to listen to your body and to find what works best for you.
If you’re unsure about what you like, try exploring different sensations, positions, and types of stimulation. And don’t be afraid to get creative and have fun with it! Ask Mistress Delia about different strap-on types so you can enjoy a good fucking even as a beginner!
Anal play for beginners can be a pleasurable and exciting addition to any sexual repertoire, but it’s important to approach it with caution and care. Ms. Delia will always tell you to prepare for an al play and use plenty of lubricant, and listen to your body.
If you are new to anal play but really wish to try, go ahead and explore, and don’t be afraid to try something new! Beg for Mistress Delia to help you get kinky!
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