Earlier this week, one of my very lucky submissive playmates was given the opportunity to explore precious territory- my adorable ass! After encountering some less than stellar experiences in the past, I truly do feel like a virgin this time around because I finally know how it feels to have . . . → Read More: Like a Virgin]]>

Exploring Precious Territory

Earlier this week, one of my very lucky submissive playmates was given the opportunity to explore precious territory- my adorable ass! After encountering some less than stellar experiences in the past, I truly do feel like a virgin this time around because I finally know how it feels to have my ass treated right! Read on to learn a thing or two about how this Mistress likes it done, and you may be the next lucky boy in line to please my hot seat

Sensual Beginnings

At least for now, I’ve found that my booty prefers to be treated in a very sensual manner, and to admit that anal stimulation from a sub to a Domme is yet another form of body worship is not beyond me! My playmate and I began with some wonderful kisses on my thighs and ass cheeks, and he was then permitted to begin his oral servitude. He kindly asked if he could rim my asshole with his fingertips, and in the heat of the moment, I allowed him to. Being quite gentle, I soon noticed my entire body becoming more relaxed, more sensitive . . . more willing, for that matter!

The Sexy Rewards of Patience

This talented boy toy managed to get me into quite the state of pleasure: I was turned on more than enough to be willing to explore new sensations, but not too much that I’d say to hell with it and have him finish me off right then and there. With me writhing in a state of ecstasy, he whispered quite softly, “Mistress, may I slip a finger inside?”

And so, the cherry has officially been popped! Needless to say, it could have simply been the thrill of being such a naughty girl, or perhaps such sensitive nerves being touched just right- regardless, I had one of the most mind blowing orgasms I can remember in recent history! And I loved every second of it.

Was losing your anal virginity a memorable and satisfying experience? Do tell!

XOXO- Mistress Marilyn

Confession time: I’ve always been iffy about receiving anal pleasure. As a Domme, there is an obvious appeal to providing a partner with anal stimulation because of the intimate time it takes to get cozy with each other and relax, and also because fucking a man with a strap . . . → Read More: Mistress in Training]]>

Taking My Own Advice

Confession time: I’ve always been iffy about receiving anal pleasure. As a Domme, there is an obvious appeal to providing a partner with anal stimulation because of the intimate time it takes to get cozy with each other and relax, and also because fucking a man with a strap on is a rush of feminine power in and of itself. However, this has led me to wonder about all the fun I’ve been missing out on with anal play, and how I can find exciting new ways to be pleasured as a Domme.

Perks of Female Anal Play

Whether you’re a submissive or vanilla, you know it’s important to pleasure your lady. Things just run smoother for you that way, darling Most people are aware that for men, anal play can directly stimulate the prostate gland, which makes for some interesting and powerful sensations. Many people also know that in women, the G Spot, which is located inside the vagina, is one serious pleasure zone that can give her orgasms like no other when touched just right. But did you know that you can also stimulate a woman’s G Spot through anal play? With a curved finger or anal vibrator it is entirely possible to find and pleasure that special spot, and with practice, even get her to orgasm through anal stimulation!

Exploring With a Partner

To some men, trying to anally pleasure your Mistress can seem out of the ordinary to you, especially if you’re the one used to taking it up the ass The good news is, it doesn’t have to be weird! Go about pleasing her anally with the same mindset you have pleasing her any other way- what matters is making her feel good. In a body worship scene, you may try finger rimming her while you kiss and caress her gorgeous ass cheeks. During oral servitude, you might try rimming her with your tongue as the anus has very perceptible nerves to oral stimulation. If you’re like me and are nervous about skin to tongue contact there, a simple covering of plastic wrap, a split condom, or a dental dam will toss those nerves out the window!

Have you ever taken the time to pleasure your Mistresses ass? If so, feel free to share your feelings about your experience, and if not- does the idea of pleasing your Mistress in new and exciting ways intrigue you? Do tell!

XOXO- Mistress Marilyn

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Today we are going to cover my hands down, favorite thing about anal play- toys! Anal sex toys give you endless ways to discover new pleasure. There are different shapes, sizes, colors, materials, and functions to experiment with to ensure that you and your ass never get bored! Let’s begin

Mistress Marilyn schools you on Anal Toys

When Mistress Marilyn shops for anal sex toys, I look for:

• A flared base or a decent set of balls

  • This prevents a toy from slipping away into uncharted territory! Safety is sexy

• Texture

  • With dildos, look for a nice shapely ridge where the head meets the shaft or stimulating veiny details!
  • With plugs, try out a graduated bead-like design that feels great staying put or with some gentle thrusting.

• Function

  • If you’ve not yet tried a vibrating toy in your ass, you don’t know what you’re missing! Not only do vibrations increase the amazing sensations the toy already gives, but they also aid in anal foreplay by helping relax your muscles when used externally.
  • Along with toys made specifically for prostate stimulation, you may also find dildos or vibrators with a curvature to them that can do wonders for your prostate as well! Just be sure not to forget the flared base rule, and make sure the toy is safe for anal play.

• Size

  • Size is certainly a factor when choosing an anal toy as it depends on the experience level of your or your partners ass.
  • For those newer to anal play, there are small dildos called anal starters that are quite modest! Also look for small sized butt plugs which tend to be shorter and quite slim. Work out that ass then work your way up!
  • For those at an intermediate or advanced level, feel free to start experimenting with medium to large sized plugs or dildos with a bit more girth. Take your time, insert the toy slowly, and if it’s too big your body will let you know! Be aware of what you’re feeling, and hey- if your dream toy isn’t working out yet, don’t worry. All good things come with patience and time, and it’s good to have sexy goals for the long run

• Material

  • My personal suggestion is that you always use a waterproof toy for anal play, so you don’t stress about damaging it during clean up.
  • Different materials tend to be harder or softer, and the type of material is usually listed with a product description. For instance, a PVC dildo tends to be firm with comfortable give to it, while a TPE toy is often much softer and better suited for sensually stimulating those sensitive nerves of yours!

And there you have it: the in’s and out’s of anal toys- pun intended

What sexy details do you look for when picking out anal toys? Do you have any that gave you an experience incredible enough to share? Let’s hear it!

XOXO- Mistress Marilyn