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Kinkify your Anal Foreplay

Marilyn — Thu, 12 Apr 2012 22:53:37 +0000

While anal play can be considered a fetish in and of itself, it’s no surprise that multiple fantasies- both the sensual and the wicked- can play an exciting and vital part in the overall scheme of kinky things Today I’d like to focus on the darker side of anal foreplay and all the devious little things that come along with it. Welcome to my twisted idea of fun

Come to the Dark Side . . . We Have Fetishes

Properly placed discipline and pain play can certainly give a sexy boost to the anal play yet to come. This is because the right amount of ouch can get feel-good endorphins running, which can add to the level of sexual excitement. Here’s where it can get tricky- for an incredible anal play experience, we know that it is very important to be relaxed. If you’re a newbie to pain play, I suggest taking it slow and building upon what you can handle, and sticking to activities you’re comfortable with. For the more experienced players, you’ve already been there and done that, so all you’ll need to do is be a good subbie and take what your Mistress gives to you! Aren’t you lucky?

Kinky Anal Foreplay Tricks to Try

Spanking the “sweet spot”- The “sweet spot” is the little quadrant where the fleshiest part of your bum meets your thighs, and that particular area is packed with nerve endings that send a rush right to your naughty bits when stimulated. For this particular area, a hand or a paddle are wonderful tools.
Flogging for sensation- For a more sensual flogging experience, I love using a suede flogger with soft figure eight strokes over the sweet spot, as well as just a bit above or below it. For a more sting-y sensation, try a leather (or rubber, if you’re brave and open to marks) flogger using a towel snap throw. For a sensation with more thud than sting, try a punch throw to the sweet spot with a leather flogger to warm things up
The Riding Crop- This particular implement gives very concentrated sensations and can make your adorable ass cheeks bounce just right with a particular flick of the wrist. The soft tip of the crop can also be gently brushed over the skin to add some sensuality to the mix.
Electro Play- If you’re a fan of electro sex, invest in a body contact attachment for your violet wand. As long as the attachment is against your Mistresses skin, she can use her fingertips all over the sensitive skin of your backside for some shocking sensations. Also consider a Mylar flogger; when used with the body contact attachment, every tail that brushes over your skin will make your nerves tingle exquisitely

Do you have any kinky ass play tips and tricks to share? Start talkin’!

XOXO- Mistress Marilyn

The Do’s and Don’ts of Anal Play

Marilyn — Fri, 16 Mar 2012 01:26:24 +0000

So, you know it feels good to stick things up your butt. But, (hehe, see what I did there?), there are certain things about anal play that you should do for the best possible experience. On the flip side of the coin, there are also a few things you’ll want to avoid to ensure a happy bottom Let’s explore!

The Do’s of Anal Play

DO use LOTS and LOTS of lube! As I was once told by a very sexy source, when you think you’ve used way too much lube, that’s usually just enough

DO make sure to be comfortable and relaxed. Though fetishes can often be cloaked by a sinister demeanor, there is always a level of trust that lies beneath that. There is nothing wrong with saying you’re not quite ready for a certain activity just yet, and you may just need to find a deeper connection first. Talk it over and perhaps bring some massage oil into the picture. There’s never an excuse to make negotiation unsexy

DO combine anal play with other stimulation such as stroking or using a variety of male sex toys. Depending on your choice of toy and how you use it, or if you’re playing with a partner, DO remember to either use a condom on your toys, and/or be sure to wash your toys and hands before pleasuring other hot spots.

DO try a prostate vibrator at least once in your lifetime, the sooner the better. I promise you won’t regret it

The Don’ts of Anal Play

DON’T try to use a toy, or anything else for that matter that clearly isn’t going to work at said point and time. Though being a size queen can be a big turn on, always remember that relativity is a factor. My tip would be to use a blindfold while playing with a toy you agree upon and a trusted partner. That way, you can imagine taking your dream toy, and by working within your limits you may find that it provides just the sensation you need

DON’T use a toy without a good sized base to it, or is otherwise noted to not be a toy suitable for anal use. You can use corded egg or bullet vibrators, but it is very important to slip a non-lubricated condom over them and simply lube up the outside the condom away from the cord, as well as your ass.

DON’T be afraid to get kinky with it! Anal play can coexist with multiple fetishes, and can add a whole new level of excitement to a tried and true roleplay. Be creative!

Do you have anything to add to the list or an opinion to share? Go for it!

XOXO- Mistress Marilyn

Why Ms Delia Loves Strap On Play

Marilyn — Thu, 08 Mar 2012 22:27:06 +0000

What is it about Strap-on Play?

Strap-on play gets Ms. Delia so wet. Why, you ask? Is it the power, controlling you with my cock? Is it the role reversal of me fucking you? Is it how you beg and moan beneath me, asking to be taken? No, I think the main reason is because I know I can satisfy you in a way you could never satisfy anyone with that small, inadequate cock! You’ll finally get to know why it is that every girl you’ve ever been with has left you because of that little dicklette between your legs.

Getting ready for Srap-Ons

The anticipation is excruciating though, isn’t it? I tie you down to my spanking bench – which is just as good for a nice ass-reaming – and redden that ass with my paddle (Ms. Delia HATES a pale ass). Then I leave you there, while I slip the strap-on harness up my legs and get it all snug around my waist, and slip the strap-on into its holder. I walk around in front of you, and you can see it bobbing in front of your mouth. Open up. All good sluts suck their lovers off before they get reamed!

Now, YOU’RE FUCKED!

Should I be nice and give you some lube? If you’ve done a good job blowing me, you shouldn’t need any, should you? I get behind you and spread your ass cheeks, looking for that little puckered ass-pussy. Do you feel my cock up against it? You little bitch, are you pushing back? Do you want it that bad? Should I slide it in slowly, so you feel every inch? Or ram it in balls-deep on the first stroke? If you’ve been doing your Kegel exercises, you should be able to relax enough to let me in. Then, like the slutty little bitch that you are, you can start milking my cock. Maybe, if you’re lucky, I decided to use my squirting dildo this time, and you’ll get a nice little surprise! Can you feel it rubbing up against your prostate? I hope that feels good, because that’s the only way you’re going to cum from this fucking. Moaning and begging with my cock buried deep in your ass.

How do you feel about why Mistress Delia loves strap on play? Did her guest post get you as hot as it made me? Do tell!

This is my Brain on Strap On Fantasies

Marilyn — Fri, 24 Feb 2012 01:20:27 +0000

There comes a time for every busy Mistress, where she looks longingly at her strap on, wondering where the days have gone and how she managed to miss out on putting it to good use lately! Although this can be a quite melancholy situation, it doesn’t have to be Revelations like this only remind me to get back on the horse, or get an adorable little slave back on his spanking bench with his ass at my mercy, for that matter! Lucky for you, a hot and recent play date of mine got me thinking about how many different routes a strap-on fantasy can take, and better yet- I’ve decided to share a few! You’re welcome

Slave Strap On Training

Often accompanied by leather, bondage, and corporal punishment, getting fucked by a strap-on is a great way to keep a slave in their place. Being taken by a Mistress and her strap on teaches a great sense of humility. Meanwhile, while you beg “Mistress, please!” and I tease your flesh with a pinwheel, we both know the truth is you love taking it up the ass. And I love to watch you squirm, so that works out well for everyone!

Sissification Strap On Play

The frilly skirt. The crotchless panties hiked up in the back. And oh, the high heels. Whether you need to take it like a little sissy slut, or you simply want to know how it feels to be made love to like a woman, my strap on comes into play once again! And, oh no, that’s not quite your “ass” getting fucked anymore now that you’re in a skirt, is it doll?

Strap On Cuckolding

Cuckolding is a fantasy enjoyed by many, but sometimes the whole point is fantasy. When you’re not ready yet to dive right in and experience the real thing, there’s a strap on just waiting to cuckold you! From a Mistress blindfolding you and standing in as her “lover” and taking you from behind, to her having you wear the strap on yourself for a sexy tension filled ride (for you, at least!), there’s always a damn good reason to break out the strap on for your cuckold fantasies. Just admit it already

I shared, now it’s your turn! Which of these strap on fantasies do you enjoy? Do you have any to add to the list? Let’s get talking!

XOXO- Mistress Marilyn

7 Things to Love about Anal Play

Marilyn — Fri, 10 Feb 2012 02:34:26 +0000

With so many different ways to experience and enjoy anal play, it can be tough sometimes to sum up your favorites, let alone pick just one to enjoy for the evening! The difficulty to summarize aside, it’s also very fun to sit down and think about all the aspects you love, as well as how to combine them for a mind blowing experience!

Without further ado, my Top 7 Favorite Things about Anal Play are:

1. The Intimacy- In order to truly get the full benefits of your anal play experiences, I believe it’s important to play with someone you’re comfortable with, and who makes you feel sexy. Your body needs to relax to explore what feels good, and it takes trust and intimacy to pleasure such a sensitive place.

2. The Sensation- Speaking of sensitivity, your booty has many concentrated nerve endings which are close to other naughty bits. Combine that with easy access to a man’s prostate gland or indirect stimulation to a woman’s G-spot and it’s no wonder anal stimulation is such a turn on!

3. The Toys- From strap-ons to vibrating plugs, there is a style, color, size, and material of toy for everyone, no matter what your level of experience or preference is. Which is, well, awesome!

4. The Naughtiness- I speak from experience when I say that having your ass played with feels very naughty, and in the best of ways! While some sadly still consider anal play a taboo, I also believe that the feeling of being taboo is a sexy plus for anal play practitioners Ironic, but nifty nonetheless!

5. The Versatility- Fingers, cocks, tongues, and toys are all incredible to use in anal play. Also, with lube, condoms, gloves and dental dams, there never has to be an ick factor. Be creative, do what feels good and what you’re comfortable with and you can’t go wrong

6. The Fetishes- From coerced-bi cuckolding to a robot who can press a button to eject a dildo attachment, naughtier guided masturbation to sissy strap on training, there’s really an angle of anal play for everyone to enjoy!

7. The Journey- With anal play, it’s important to take the scenic route. Start small, and work your way up while indulging your fantasies. Regardless of what your dream anal play experience may be, half the fun is learning all those little things you love along the way!

If you had to make your own list, what would your Top 7 favorite things be about anal play? Can you think of some interesting toys or scenarios to combine in a sexy fantasy? Go on, share

XOXO- Mistress Marilyn