Bend Over Boyfriend, Part 4: Go BOB Shopping

Buttfucked Bob

Now that she’s been able to play with your ass, and you’ve told her just what you enjoy and how you like to be fucked, it’s time for the two of you to go Bend Over Boyfriend shopping.  You need to pick up a harness, a selection of dildos and some lube.  Let’s dispense with the easiest one first – lube.  You know you’ll need it – and lots of it.  Ms. Constance has a whole page devoted to Lube Reviews, so I urge you to check that out, then pick up the kind of lube that suits you.

Picking Out A Strap-On Harness

You will find all kinds of dildo harnesses  -whether you have an adult toy store near you, or you have to order it from on-line.  Stay away from the one piece dildo. This is an dildo and harness all-in-one.  First of all, quality isn’t good, but more importantly, you can never switch the dildo out since it’s attached to the harness.  What fun is that?  As you become more and more of a Bend Over Boyfriend, the two of you are going to want to try new and different dildos.  So, get either the g-string or jock-strap style harness – or better yet, my favorite – the strap-on panty!

Picking Out A Dildo

Once you’ve picked out a harness, You need to get a dildo to go in it!  You don’t need a huge dildo to prove anything to anyone!  Much like a pussy, the majority of the nerve endings in your ass are just inside and that’s what you have to stimulate.  Start out with something comfortable – not to big, not too thick.  You can always get something bigger later on (see, that’s why we didn’t get the one piece dildo and harness!)  Besides size, texture is important too.  Jack prefers something smooth, like the Tantus line, but I also have pets who love the feeling of a life-like dildo.  That’s why it’s important to experiment with yourself and to have your wife/girlfriend experiment with you as well, so you’ll know what you like.

Ready to get pegged?   Next, week, slut.  Have patience!