Ms. Delia has quite an Anal Play Do’s and Don’ts list for you so take note of all these for more enjoyable anal play!
Anal Play Do’s and Don’ts
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1) Always use lube, lube, and MORE LUBE- water based is best! Just when you think you’ve used too much lube, it’s usually just enough to start, but you may need to add more during your session!
2) Cleanliness is key when it comes to anal play! Both you, and your toys should be cleaned before playing. Use condoms for extra cleanliness.
3) When picking an anal toy, ALWAYS look for a flared base on a butt plug or a good set of balls on a dildo. Why? Go google Rectal Foreign Object Removal. This rule avoids that!
4) The toy of your choice should also be made out of a non-porous material that can be sterilized, like silicone, metal, or glass.
5) Always start small and work your way up! Think fingers, small butt plugs, slim dildos. Good things come to anal enthusiasts who wait, so you can work up to a larger toy- it’s one of the sexiest journeys you’ll ever take!
6) You can use condoms on toys for ease of cleaning and smoothness.
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7) Relaxation is key for anal masturbation!!!!! If you’re nervous or tense, anal play likely won’t feel great- and that’s if you can slip in a toy at all! If you relax your muscles and take some deep breaths, your body will be perfectly in tune to enjoy what feels good!
8) Double dipping is a no-no! Never use anal toys for any other type of sex play! Get other toys to suck and use for vaginal fucking.
9) Be aware of your body, and listen to what it has to tell you! Your ass will let you know if something feels oh so right- or very wrong! A slight bit of discomfort is one thing- pain means you’ve gone too big too soon.
10) When you begin to penetrate, the two sphincter muscles will contract. Penetrate a little bit, then wait for the muscles to relax for about 10-30 seconds. Repeat slowly. If the muscles tense up, wait for them to relax again. If there is any pain, stop and wait for the muscles to relax.
I love these anal play tips! I hope you use them and make your anal experiences better!
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Ms Delia- I’m glad you put this list together. Enthusiastic converts to ass play want it ALL sometimes, bigger, longer, harder, and you have to remind them it’s a muscle, just like any other, and takes a little bit of patience, a LOT of lube, and the guidance of an excellent Mistress to get them where they want to go.
Exactly, Ms. Stephanie! LOTS of lube for anal play!