Every once in a while I receive an email asking for advice about strap on play. I recently received an email from a man I had been talking to for a while. He had a goal to tell his wife about his desire for pegging. He did, and she actually said yes. All of a sudden, he froze and did not know what to do.
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So far, he had taken only small butt plugs, never thinking she would really want to peg him! He was not prepared. Here is his email:
Dear Ms. Delia I am (slut tom) and I took your advice and spoke to my wife about anal sex or pegging. She has agreed to try it with me. She says she has been reading some kinky stories so she surprised me by saying yes. Can you give me some advice for our first time with a strap on, because now I am really nervous.
2 First time Pegging Tips
- Use lots and lots of LUBE. That strap-on should be dripping with it. Remember, while a woman can get wet with pussy juice, and a cock can leak precum for lubrication, your anus can not do this, so all lube must come from your own tube or jar.
- Take your time!! Do not rush into this. Remember, pegging can be a long process. You may not be able to take that strap-on the first time, but you can do some anal training to get your opening all ready! And the most important rule I have is IF IT HURTS STOP!!! Strap on sex can hurt so good, but pain means STOP!
Remember to use LUBE LUBE LUBE LUBE LUBE, and then more LUBE with any and all anal play!
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